Your ex feels certain negative emotions for you, so the best thing for you to do is to distance yourself an wait for your ex to process them.Įven though you feel inclined to fix your ex’s problems for your ex, it has to be your ex’s rational decision to do that. If your ex hates you and has moved on, it doesn’t matter right now because it’s all in the past. It also depends on the quality of the romantic relationship and the dumper’s overall post-breakup happiness. This means that the less begging the dumpee does, the higher his or her chances of hearing from the dumper are. The majority, though, can’t handle 3 or 4 weeks of begging as displaying so much unsightly behavior almost always pushes the dumper to the other side of the world and makes him or her resent the dumpee. It really depends on the person’s maturity and self-awareness. Some dumpers reach their tipping point after two days and others bear with it for a week or two.

I wish I could say how much pleading is too much after the breakup, but I can’t because each and every dumper interprets begging behavior differently. You showed your ex that you don’t have the power to stop your impulses and told your ex that you care about yourself way more than his or her suffocating emotions How much begging is too much begging? In that case, you may have gone over the top as you failed to respect your ex’s decision. Unless you kept pestering your ex for so long that your ex blocked you and asked the court to issue a restraining order against you, of course. The majority of dumpees hear from their exes within the first 6 months-and chances are that you will too.Įven if you begged and pleaded with your ex, you probably didn’t push your ex away forever.

Make your ex want to talk to you on his or her own terms.

Neutralize your ex’s suffocated mental state.

No matter what you aspire to accomplish, radio silence with your ex will help you achieve three things:

It can help you if you committed a lot of post-breakup mistakes and it can also help you if you’re struggling to regain the power after the break-up. The power of silence after the break-up can help you in many ways.

Radio silence ex